My sister-in-law visits us often and always insists on going to fancy restaurants, yet every time the bill comes, she conveniently “forgets” her wallet. Since she stays at our place for free and expects me—not even my husband—to pay because I earn more, the situation became exhausting. For years, I covered the bills and she never paid me back once.
During her most recent visit, she booked an expensive restaurant again, and I finally snapped. Before we left, I saw her wallet sitting right on her suitcase. I slipped it into my purse and said nothing. After dinner, she tried her usual act, claiming she had forgotten her wallet. That’s when I calmly pulled it out and asked, “You mean this wallet?”
She exploded, accusing me of violating her privacy and embarrassing her. Now she’s furious not only because I exposed her tactic but also because I shared the story for advice. Still, I can’t help thinking she only made herself look bad by repeatedly taking advantage of me.
Next time, I’m planning to set clearer boundaries—cheaper plans, paying separately, or simply staying home. Family shouldn’t drain your wallet or your patience, and sometimes, a taste of their own medicine is what finally makes them realize it.
