I’ve always known I don’t want kids. Much like many families out there, my family never liked that idea either, but I got used to the comments. Every holiday, someone would ask, “Who’s going to look after you when you’re older?” I’d laugh it off or change the subject.
Then my parents started hinting that if I didn’t “reconsider,” they might leave me out of the will. I honestly thought they were just trying to scare me. But last month, my brother and his wife told us they can’t have children. I could see my parents’ faces change instantly.
A few days later, they sat me down and said it straight. If I don’t have kids, they’ll cut me out for real. No more jokes, no more “just saying.” It was an ultimatum.
Now I feel like I’m under a microscope. Every call, every visit, there’s some comment about “time running out.” I’m hurt, and honestly, I’m questioning if I even want to keep trying with them if this is how they see me.
I’m not sure what to do next. It feels like I’m being forced to choose between my own life and keeping my family’s approval.
