Susan works in a small office where the company provides free lunches. One coworker, Emily, regularly throws away half of her meal every day, which frustrates Susan because she cares deeply about food waste. One afternoon, after watching Emily toss almost a full lunch in the trash, Susan finally spoke up and said she could have saved it for later, adding that “there are people who’d be happy to eat it.” Emily smirked and walked away, and Susan assumed that was the end of it.
A few days later, HR called Susan in. Emily had reported her for “commenting on her eating habits,” and HR explained that discussing coworkers’ food choices could make people uncomfortable. Susan tried to defend herself, explaining she was frustrated by waste, especially since the company paid for the meals. Still, HR treated the matter seriously.
Soon after, the entire office received a company-wide email announcing a new policy: employees were no longer allowed to comment on anyone’s eating behaviors at work — and, more shockingly, the company would no longer be covering lunches at all. Employees would now have to pay for their own food. Everyone immediately connected the change to Susan’s comment, and she began hearing remarks like, “Thanks for ruining lunch for all of us.”
Now Susan feels like the office villain and wonders whether she should have stayed silent. Her intention wasn’t to shame anyone — she simply hates food waste. But the situation spiraled far beyond what she expected, leaving her questioning both her actions and the values of the people around her.