A reader shared how her trust was shaken when her husband — a doctor — dismissed her pregnancy pain and refused to take her to the hospital. What he brushed off as nothing nearly turned into a serious emergency, reminding her how dangerous it can be when medical concerns are ignored, even by someone you love.

If something feels wrong, trust your instincts. A pregnant woman knows her body best, and no one should downplay her symptoms — not even a medical professional. Seeking a second opinion is not disrespectful; it’s responsible. Your health and your baby’s well-being must come first.

Educating yourself about pregnancy symptoms and potential complications can help you advocate for proper care. Books, articles, and prenatal classes can empower you to recognize when something truly isn’t right.

Finally, couples should create a clear emergency plan for future situations — outlining when to get help, who to call, and what steps to take. Preparation ensures you’re both ready to act quickly if another health scare arises.