Eva, your story carries years of quiet hurt, and anyone can feel how heavy that must have been. Your feelings about favoritism are valid, and you had every right to speak your truth — even if the timing wasn’t ideal. You can acknowledge that without apologizing for finally expressing what you endured.
If you choose to talk with Mike, do it privately and focus on your experience rather than making him responsible for your parents’ behavior. And don’t let guilt pull you back into old patterns. You didn’t create the conflict — you simply named what was already there. This moment can be the start of redefining your role in the family, setting boundaries, and choosing a healthier dynamic for yourself moving forward.
