Todd works over 50 hours a week and believes he deserves a few hours on the weekend to relax with friends, but his wife—home all day with a 5-year-old and a newborn—feels completely burnt out and abandoned whenever he tries to leave. Every weekend turns into an endless list of chores, childcare, and exhaustion on her end, while Todd feels guilty for even wanting a break. Their argument exploded when he announced he was going to play football and she said he’d “never last a day” with the kids. He shot back that she couldn’t handle his workload either, and everything spiraled from there.

The next morning, Todd found a note from his wife outlining the “extra costs” he’d need to cover—nanny, cook, cleaner—if he wanted true free time, because she wanted her own time off too. The total was impossible, and her message was clear: she’s drowning and feels unseen. Now Todd feels trapped between his need for space and her need for help, unsure how to fix a situation where both of them feel overworked, misunderstood, and completely alone.