I bought a perfume with “pheromones,” hoping it would make me irresistible. At the mall, men really were staring—until a saleswoman whispered that my shirt was inside out. Mortified, I fixed it and kept shopping. In a bookstore, a guy named Nate joked that my perfume was strong, and we ended up chatting. He gave me his number, and eventually, we went out. The more we talked, the more I realized it wasn’t the perfume he liked—it was me.
Months later, I met his sister… the same saleswoman who’d warned me. We laughed about it, and Nate admitted he liked my awkward honesty from the start. As our relationship grew, I stopped wearing the perfume—I didn’t need it anymore. I’d found confidence, love, and most importantly, myself.