When Sydney’s ex-husband called asking to pause child support for six months so his new wife could get a car, she was stunned — especially when he added, “You don’t need the money anyway.” Instead of arguing, she agreed to “talk next week,” letting him believe she’d give in. At drop-off, she handed him an envelope he assumed was confirmation. Instead, it contained a letter stating that since he wouldn’t pay child support, he would have their son full-time for six months and be responsible for all expenses and care.
He panicked almost immediately. Within days, he admitted he couldn’t manage full-time parenting, and a week later, he paid the full child support and begged to return to their usual arrangement. His wife even apologized, saying she never asked for a new car. Sydney didn’t feel petty — just tired of being the only responsible adult. Her clever move reminded him that parenting isn’t optional, and support isn’t a favor.
