Co-parenting only works when both parents share responsibility — but one reader told us what happened when her ex chose his wants over their child. Out of the blue, he called asking to pause child support for six months because his wife needed a new car. He claimed she “didn’t need the money anyway.”
Instead of arguing, she let him think she agreed. At the next drop-off, she handed him an envelope. Inside was a letter saying: Since you won’t pay child support for six months, our son will live with you full-time for six months. Please be ready to cover all financial, medical, and educational needs.
He panicked within days. His wife was “too stressed,” he said, and a week later he paid the full amount and begged to return to the regular schedule. His wife even apologized, saying she hadn’t known what he’d done.
Sydney wondered if her move was petty — but really, she just showed him what real responsibility looks like.
