In 1956, at a college party in New York, Alan Alda and Arlene bonded when they were the only two willing to eat a rum cake that had fallen on the floor. That playful moment began a love story that has lasted nearly seven decades.

Married since 1957, Alan and Arlene have faced life’s highs and lows together. Alan, best known for his iconic role in MASH*, was diagnosed with Parkinson’s disease in 2015 after noticing unusual dreams — an early sign of the condition. Rather than give in, he committed to staying active through boxing, tai chi, and mental exercises to slow the disease’s progression.

Now 89, Alan continues to work and live with determination, while Arlene — a musician and photographer — remains his quiet anchor. With patience, humor, and unwavering love, she supports him through daily challenges, from tying shoes to chasing geese off their lawn.

Their bond, built on laughter and resilience, continues to thrive. When asked what brings him the most happiness, Alan answered simply: “Laughing with my wife.”