I’m Ashley, 42, and I’ve never wanted children. I love my independence. I travel constantly and have carved out a life that genuinely makes me happy. In my family, though, my choices are questioned. They joke I’ll “end up alone, surrounded by succulents.”
Both of my sisters are married with kids. When my wealthy grandmother passed, her estate went entirely to them. I received a thank-you card and a small, cheap trinket, basically nothing of value. When I asked my parents, my mom said, “Well, they have families to care for. You’re just… on your own.” The message was clear: being childfree apparently makes you undeserving.
But while everyone else was busy hosting baby showers and school events, I quietly built my own wealth. I invested in cryptocurrency, bought and flipped niche websites, and collected vintage watches. I stayed under the radar to avoid family drama.
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Last month, I bought a two-story townhouse downtown, completely paid off. I invited my family over for dinner. My dad assumed it was rented, and my mom kept asking if my “partner” helped. I just smiled, poured drinks, and gave them a tour of the safe where I store my collection of watches, which are now worth far more than the inheritance they received.
The silence was priceless. One sister even muttered, “Maybe we underestimated staying single.”
I’m still hurt, not about the money, but because it was so easy for them to decide I didn’t deserve a share. That choosing a childfree life supposedly means I don’t deserve love, recognition, or fairness.
I haven’t answered their calls in weeks. I don’t know if I should let it go or finally confront them about how cruel and dismissive their logic has been.
What would you do?