I met Mara at work during what turned out to be the hardest season of her life, though at the time I only noticed her tired eyes and constant phone buzzes. She was a single mother of two young children, carrying the weight of vanished support and endless responsibilities alone. One Friday, she nervously asked if I could babysit her kids so she could take overtime shifts. I agreed without much thought. For a year, every Friday, her children filled my apartment with blanket forts, burnt pizza, cartoons on repeat, and quiet bedtime confessions about missing their mom. I learned their routines, fears, and comforts. Mara tried to pay me, but I always refused—I didn’t see it as a transaction, just something decent to do. Still, doubt crept in. My boyfriend insisted I was being taken advantage of, and on the nights I was exhausted or canceled my own plans, I wondered if he was right.
Then everything stopped. Mara was promoted and moved to another city, leaving in a blur of goodbyes and rushed moments. She waved once, mouthed “thank you,” and disappeared from my life. No long goodbye. No explanation. I felt foolish, like I’d given a year of my heart to something easily forgotten. Weeks later, an envelope arrived in my mailbox. Inside were two plane tickets and a handwritten note that simply said, “Come visit.” In that moment, I understood: kindness doesn’t always come back the way we expect, or on our timeline—but it does come back. And sometimes, it returns quietly, with gratitude that was deeper than words.