I thought my days of big life changes were over by the time I hit my late 50s. Then a newborn was abandoned on my frozen front step, and I became a mother at 56. Twenty-three years later, another knock at the door revealed something shocking about .I’m 79, my husband Harold is 81, and I became a mother for the first time at 56 when someone abandoned a newborn on our doorstep.Twenty-three years later, a stranger showed up with a box and said, “Look at what your son is hiding from you.”I still feel that sentence in my chest.When we were young, Harold and I could barely afford rent, let alone kids. We lived on canned soup and cheap coffee and kept saying, “Later. When things are better.”Then I got sick.
What was supposed to be a simple medical issue turned into years of treatments and hospital waiting rooms. At the end of it, the doctor sat us down and told me I wouldn’t be able to get pregnant.I stared at the floor. Harold held my hand. We walked to the car and sat there in silence.We never had a big sobbing breakdown. We just… adjusted.We bought a small house in a quiet town. We worked. Paid bills. Took quiet drives on weekends. People assumed we didn’t want kids. It was easier to let them think that than explain the truth.I turned 56 in the middle of a brutal winter.One early morning, I woke up because I heard something. At first I thought it was the wind. Then I realized it was crying.Thin, weak, but definitely a baby.